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AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's friends

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  1. Rob Cypher
    An Evans woman opened up to her Alcoholic Anonymous sponsor and ended up in jail based partly on what she revealed about an underage party and sex romp at her home, according to authorities.

    Rachel Lenhardt, 35, was charged Monday with two counts of contributing to the delinquency of a minor for allegedly providing marijuana and alcohol to minors at her home on Whitney Pass in Evans.

    The sponsor told investigators that she was recently asked to help Lenhardt, so she asked her over for coffee on April 10 to talk about Lenhardt’s plans for sobriety and such.

    Lenhardt informed her she was four days sober since April 6 when she lost custody of her five children ages 4, 6, 8, 10 and 16. Lenhardt told her that an emergency hearing was conducted this month when her kids were taken away from her due to an incident that occurred at her house.

    According to a sheriff’s report, Lenhardt gave her sponsor this account of the party:

    Her kids were with their father one night when her 16-year-old daughter texted her and asked if her and some friends could come over “to party.” Lenhardt replied “come on, let`s party.” Lenhardt allowed her teen daughter and her friends to smoke marijuana and drink her alcohol in her home. The group of minors and her played naked Twister in the living room.

    Lenhardt had sex with an 18 year old in the bathroom while the others continued to play Twister. Lenhardt told her sponsor she was still “horny” afterward so she brought her sex toys out in the living room and began to use them on herself in front of the group.

    The group and Lenhardt then got in her hot tub naked where the party continued. Lenhardt said she was asleep in her bed and woke up around 3:30 a.m. when she felt someone having sex with her. She thought it was the 18-year-old but realized it was her daughter’s 16-year-old boyfriend. The daughter later told her mother that she felt guilty because the boyfriend’s 10-inch penis was too large for her and he needed to have sex instead with the mother.

    Lenhardt also told her sponsor that she had shown her daughter pornographic photos, including photos of her and her current boyfriend having sex.

    The sponsor told investigators that Lenhardt has opened up about being a sexual deviant and porn addict.

    Sheriff’s Capt. Steve Morris said this week’s arrest of Lenhardt is based partially on the account given to them by the AA sponsor. He said no sexual crime charges were being filed because 16 is the legal age of consent.

    Augusta Crime
    April 14, 2015

    http://augustacrime.com/a-a-sponsor-turns-in-evans-woman-for-underage-party/

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  1. Rob Cypher
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    pic of suspect (for some reason the "IMGR/IMGL" command isn't working for me like it should): [​IMG]
  2. Basoodler
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    My high school parties were not nearly this cool.. Come to think of it, my "parties" as an adult have never been cool enough to rock naked twister.

    This story came about because this woman's sex addiction sponsor with AA called the cops over a fanciful story. Which I think is justified because minors were involved.

    [​IMG]

    ^ http://www.thesmokinggun.com/file/rachel-lehnardt-arrest


    A large part of sex addiction lies in The world of fantasy. Which makes me think that portions of her story may just be something she dreamed up..

    I bet it's hard to get a room full of people to get naked and convince them that playing old school board games is the right thing to do


    A Sex addiction sponsor probably hears some crazy stories ,,.
  3. Rob Cypher
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    But she already lost her kids. Does she need additional punishment via sex offenders list and mandatory prison time? The "Anonymous" system is suspect right there because of that.
  4. Basoodler
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    She isn't charged with any sex crimes that I see.

    I see charges for providing booze and weed. The age of consent is 16 in GA so she won't be charged with sex crimes..

    Its odd to see the word rape used In a police report without subsequent charges..
  5. FrYingRyan
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    Not a bad sort. I'd be up to see her show and have a go. Especially if I was still just a teenager in school.

    I think it is a bit extreme for the sponsor to betray her trust. Providing alcohol and drugs to minors is wrong but it didn't sound excessive. Teenagers are often drinking and smoking weed and a lot of parents supervise this in their own homes.

    Going onto making it a sex party probably crosses the line but not into an area where I think they are at more risk then other activities normally engaged in my kids that age.

    I'm sure many addicts have done things that are criminal and regrettable, if seeking help through AA or other support groups means you first have to be charged for any criminal activity before confiding in a sponsor, might discourage people from seeking help.

    (Sentence structure and vocabulary could be a bit messy, little scattered at the moment)
  6. Rob Cypher
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    It's agreed! Give her 40 taps to the bottom by 5 gentlemen who know how to distribute justice! who's with me
  7. trdofbeingtrd
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    I am kind of sickened by how people are portraying that this is really no big deal. They were teenagers, that is true, it's not like it was a bunch of literal children, these were a whole 4 to 6 years older then children. It's not right for a 30 something year old man to have sex with a 16 year old girl but if it's a 30 something year old woman (especially if she is hot) then somehow that is different???

    That one sided shit is really sexist and an ignorant (notice I didn't say stupid) stance on the whole thing. Would I want to have sex with a 30 to 40 year old woman when I was 16? Of course, and....?????
    When I was 12, would I like to have sex with an attractive 30 to 40 year old woman? Of course, but that is child molestation. There are numerous reasons why it's not right, but even without morality coming into the picture, 16 year olds are NOT old enough to compleatly understand the consequences of having sex that young, why would they?

    I am not saying it's okay to break the "anonymous" loyalty that groups such as AA supposedly have.......except when it has to do with minors and just because any normal guy would want to have sex does not change the fact that they are minors. This isn't "okay" just because some countries/states say 16 is age of consent.

    It's true that the story seems exaggerated or possibly said in attempt to exaggerate. It's not about this specific case. It's all over the place with some improbable factors. It's about the "I would fuck her if I was a teen" attitude......no shit. This does not make it okay.

    Seriously, if it's wrong for an adult man to have sex with a minor or teen, it IS wrong for an adult woman to have sex with a minor or teen.

    With this specific case, it would be nice if they can give her a psychological test and even a lie detector test, but that won't happen. Also, while I have to admit that the whole story seems far fetched, it's odd that a person would think that AA confidentiality would apply to anything involving underage teens.

    Anyways, back to giving her a medal and wishing we were molested.
  8. Rob Cypher
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    I don't understand what you're saying. I would've hit it at 16, and I would've hit it at my current age (with is at least 2x 16, if you want to know). what are you saying man
  9. trdofbeingtrd
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    Every guy who likes pussy would hit it at 16. It's not about what you or I would do, it's about the grown adult and what they do.

    I am saying that it's sexist, ignorant, hypocritical, and wrong for anyone to defend an adult having sex with teens just because it's a woman just as its wrong for an adult to have sex with a teenager, regardless of its a full grown man OR a full grown woman.

    Punishments should not be as harsh MAYBE on adults that have sex with teenagers compared to adults that have sex with straight up children (depending on the circumstances) but it don't mean because some fucking state says 16 is the age of consent that it's not wrong even on a level that's not moral. It's for sure not right for a full grown woman to have sex with teens just because the teens are teens and want to have sex. Believe it or not, sex when you are not grown is not just physical and I doubt teens having sex with adults is healthy on any level.......even if they are attractive.
  10. Diverboone
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    The theoretical idea that adulthood comes at the age of 18 is a recently man made idea. The absurdity of the idea that a person has to reach a numerical age to be old enough to have children should be obvious. No where in nature is a species that waits multiple years to reproduce after becoming capable. To conceive a theoretical number one can only be derived from opinions and morals. Mother nature and history do not agree. Sexual desire is natural instinctive human behavior that laws or morals will never harness.

    From a personal note I would not exist if these moral ideologies were laws such as they are today. My Grandmother was 13 when she married my Grandfather who was 21 at the time. They had 8 children and were happily married till death done them apart. Who is anyone to say that they were wrong or not old enough? Scenarios such as this were common not that long ago.

    It seems the only people complaining in the OPs story are those that were not involved. The AA sponsor complained to the law, which did not even see fit to file any sexual charges. But the story is great media for people to cast their morels and personal opinions upon others.

    Maybe if we as a society would not treat/teach anything sexual in nature is taboo to talk and be open about we might not have so many sexually deviants amongst us.

    Now I've passed my personal opinions along.
  11. trdofbeingtrd
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    Well, if anyone here really wants to defend 30 year olds having sex with 16 year olds by using any "logic", do me a favor, take me off your friends list if I am on it. It's wrong, it's sick, and regardless of the past or present no amount of "logic" will ever change that.
  12. Mir6
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    Wut? When I was 12 I wasn't thinking about having sex with women who could be my mother.

    Wrong or not, right or not, it's not illegal because the age of consent rule wasn't broken. The article says she was charged with two counts of contributing to the delinquency of a minor for allegedly providing marijuana and alcohol to minors (and her letting them smoke and drink in her house not directly providing them with anything would probably be considered providing marijuana and alcohol under the law), not having sex with an underage individual.

    That sure looks like a fckep up family - what kind of teenager would want to have a sex party with her mother? - but still the mother shouldn't be sent to jail for this. She has already lost custody of her children and it looks like it was the right decision. But if her children still want to spend time with her well, I don't know what to say.
  13. trdofbeingtrd
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    Ohhhhh, so if the law changes so that people can drink the blood of ten year olds (no younger, that's just silly) while chopping off the heads of the elderly then it's okay.....that makes so much more sense. Perfect "logic" on why it's okay to fuck humans who are not FULLY developed, after all, if they can physically reproduce then to hell with their emotional and mental development. Great "logic", I take it all back.
  14. soso
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    She's nasty, that's all there is to it, fucking her daughters friends and bf and using vibrator in front of her and all her friends is discusting. Never mind the age thing, what about the mother daughter thing.
    Losing custody of her kids is the best thing that could have happened. They be better off without her.
  15. Diverboone
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    It seems that opinions can ignite tempers, more so from the morel crusaders. I have my opinion why but they have nothing meaningful to add to the discussion. I drew my opinions from thousands of years of known history and the fact that our species continues to exist. Whether acts such as this are "right" or "wrong" is not entertained by my thoughts as I'm wise enough to understand try as hard as I might, I have no barring upon natural human/animalistic instinct.

    I have not stated that any member's post was wrong or not right, only what I thought and from what I drew my opinions from. Nor have I placed some expectation for those that want to be my friends have convert and back my personal opinion.

    When I first read the article and knowing the media's penchant for sensationalism and hyperbole I was and still am curious as to the whole/true story. Which to my fault I have not further investigated but can only help to believe there is more to it than I'm aware. Maybe I should place my efforts toward a quest to learn more, that way I may be able to give a better informed opinion.
  16. soso
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    Opinions that seem to condone paedophilia will ignite tempers, and rightly so.
    What happened in history hasnt got much to do with what happens today and what happens in nature has even less to do with anything, nature is cruel and brutal in many cases.
  17. Diverboone
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    A statement has been issued by the attorney of Rachel Lehnardt, the Evans mother who has become the center of a sordid and controversial news story and criminal case.
    From attorney Shawn Hammond:
    “Mrs. Lehnardt acknowledges that due to recent alcohol abuse she engaged in several acts of inappropriate conduct. Although, many of the allegations are exaggerated, she is extremely remorseful for what she allowed to occur in her presence and is obtaining professional and pastoral counseling to ensure that this conduct is never repeated. Mrs. Lehnardt intends to fully cooperate with the legal system to accept complete responsibility for her conduct and to fully atone for her actions. However, at not time did Mrs. Lehnardt sponsor or facilitate a party for underage minors.
    “Mrs. Lehnardt has recommitted herself to her faith and her family. She is hopeful that her children, members of her faith and others will learn from her poor example as to just how easy it is for people to exercise such extremely poor judgment while intoxicated.”
    Additionally, the following is the relevant background information.
    Mrs. Lehnardt has been a life long Mormon and is from Missouri. Her father is a doctor and she has been a devoted member of the Mormon church for most of her life to include being a Sunday school teacher. Until recently, she had never drank, did drugs, drank caffeinated beverages and strictly adhered to the major tenants of the Mormon faith.
    She and her husband have five children together and have been married since 2000.
    Her husband, James Lehnardt, was a military service member who was discharged for severe PTSD and anger issues after a deployment to Iraq. He is currently receiving 100% VA disability.
    Due to his anger and domestic violence issues, the parties separated in November 2014 with the mom keeping custody of the kids. She had not worked during the marriage and found herself with limited resources working at a job just above minimum wage. It was around this time that Mrs. Lehnardt began to break away from the church and started drinking on the weekends when she did not have the kids. Like many people after a long term, devoted marriage, Mrs. Lehnardt was unsteady and turned to alcohol more than was reasonable. It should also be stated that because Mr. Lehnardt’s military service the parties stayed in the Augusta / Fort Gordon area after his discharge which prevented her from having any extended family support.
    Over the next few months through March 2015, she had stopped going to church and would drink to the point of intoxication on the weekends when her kids were with their dad. However, she did not drink much when the kids were with her and never became drunk in their presence.
    On the weekend in question, the kids were with their dad and the 16 year old daughter came over with her friends. Mrs. Lehnardt was already intoxicated when they came over and there was obviously little parental control. Mrs. Lehnardt will not deny that the two of the older boys did smoke their own marijuana that they brought and did drink in her presence but much of the other allegations from the police report are clear exaggerations. She states that she passed out drunk in her bed before midnight leaving the kids unsupervised. Several hours later she woke up while being raped by her daughter’s 16 year old (former) boyfriend. She forced him off of her prior to him finishing the act.
    The next day, realizing that she had allowed herself to get raped by a 16 year old because of her intoxication and extremely poor judgment the night before, she sought information on local AA programs to attend. A few days later her husband’s parents were awarded temporary custody of all five children after they found out from the 16 year old daughter what had happened.
    When she started the AA program she was approached by a member named “Heidi” who asked to be her sponsor. In confidence and at Heidi’s request, she told her about the divorce, her husband’s change from the war, how she had started drinking a few months prior, the events of that night in question and how horrible she felt about everything that had transpired that night.
    It was unfortunate that Heidi went straight to the Sheriff’s department with the info. The children had already been removed from Mrs. Lehnardt’s custody and she had expressed not only her remorse for what happened but also her complete commitment to never drink again.
    Currently, Mrs. Lehnardt is obtaining counseling through a private provider, has rejoined her old church, is receiving additional pastoral counseling and is attempting to everything possible to atone for her mistakes.”
    http://augustacrime.com/attorney-for-evans-party-mom-releases-statement/
  18. Diverboone
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  19. soso
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    In the past people thought the world was flat, we now know better.
    In nature animals eat there own Young to survive, thankfully though if people did that it would be frowned upon lol
    Like I said history and nature got little to with this.
    So let me get this right, the woman in question denies all this happened and claims to have been raped, surprise surprise.
  20. Diverboone
    Re: AA sponsor turns in GA mom for having sex & drugs party with teen daughter's frie

    This discussion is not adding useful information and has basically hijacked the OP's thread. I have nothing to gain by debating my opinion. It's of no concern of mine if you agree nor disagree with me. I have the right to my opinion and there is nothing you can say or do about that, just as you have the right to your own opinions. I love a good debate but I find very little usefulness in this one.

    I think we should place more efforts into fact finding. One issue that I have seen is I believe she had lost custody of her children before this instance happened. If that's true I wonder on what grounds this was decided?
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