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Friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

Discussion in 'Sex and Drugs' started by izzy31, Dec 5, 2009.

  1. izzy31

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    This has REALLY got on one's nerves lately. Whenever a friend takes meth or adderall or ANY type of amphetamine, all he does is sit on the computer and jerk off. FOR FUCKING HOURS!!!!

    Like no shit, talking like 12 hours jacking off non-stop. WTF IS THAT SHIT??????

    When someone takes speed, he likes to play guitar or work on something constructive and productive, but a friend just sits there and jerks it!!!! WTF!!!!

    This REALLY gets on someone's nerves because sometimes he'll do it for a few days at a time, not even coming out of the room to drink or eat or go to the bathroom.....WTF is wrong with this guy???
     
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  2. Nature Boy

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Though it wouldn't bother me if you don't have to see or hear it, perhaps he should try finding a sexual partner to use all that excess energy on.
     
  3. izzy31

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Nooooo!!! You guys dont get it. HE GOES ON AND ON FOR DAYS AT A FUCKING TIME!!!

    The house looks like shit, and all he EVER wants to do is jerk it, WITH or WITHOUT meth. ALLLLLL DAY!!!

    Like wtf!!!
     
  4. ianzombie

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Why does it bother Swiy so much?
    If the guy is enjoying himself and is not harming anyone else then Swimcant really see a problem.
     
  5. izzy31

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Uhhhh you REALLY dont understand the problem here.

    THIS IS ALL HE DOES!!!! He has no friends, no life, no hobby's or intrests, and he wont even come out of the room to eat or drink or go to the bathroom!!!

    SWIM jacks off too, but not to this extent!!!
     
  6. ianzombie

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    If Swiy is worried about their friends health then they should sit down and have a chat with them. Explain Swiy's concerns and let them know that you are there for them if they need help.

    Keep a close eye on them and make sure that they don't let their health deteriorate due to lack of exercise and not eating.
     
  7. bLuE

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    make him realize... he'd be more likely to get into that kind of action if he were to be normal dude who has pass times and penis discipline lol. and theres no way he's going to get any sitting behind the damn computer. tell him your disturbed by his days of porn, and tell him its an escape, hes just trying to get away from his life instead of dealing with it.

    or simply tell him it feels way better to bust a load thats been marinating for a while, with a real live woman. instead of milking a flacid speed dick in front of pixels of raunch all hours of the day .
     
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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Sounds like swiy friend needs to lay off the speed for a while. When swim was using speed a lot, his sex drive went into overdrive. Swim doesn't mess with it anymore, but it took a while for swims sex drive to get back to normal.

    Swim wonders if it has something to do with how the meth is being made these days.Back in the 80's and early 90's meth did not effect swim that way, but the stuff thats around these days turns swim into superfreak. One of many reasons swim quit using it.
     
  9. izzy31

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    This isn't something you TALK about with anyone...come on now. Talking about it would be even more uncomfortable than it is to deal with it. But yes, SWIM believes it is an escape mechanism of some sort. But GODAM its fucking unreal. One time he locked himself in the room with an 8ball and 3 days later SWIM opened the door to find him just laying there naked saying "this isn't what it looks like"


    HIS FACE WAS GREEN cuz he hadnt drank or ate anything for 3 days!!!!!
     
  10. bLuE

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    thats not normal.... you gotta help this guy out, smash the computer or something. or make a bet he cant go a week without beating it, i mean christ thats fucked up!
     
  11. izzy31

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    I KNOW!!!! The thing is we just dont talk about it. I mean I think he KNOWS he has a problem, but for realz its getting baaaaad. One time he stayed in the room for like 3 days and left the doors to the house open and cats and shit started coming in and he was just like Oh my how did that happen?

    And I felt like screaming at him "BECAUSE YOU LEFT THE FUCKING DOORS OPEN WHILE YOU WERE JACKING OFF FOR 3 FUCKIN DAYS!!!!!"
     
  12. ianzombie

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Your both adults, ySwiy should not feel uncomfortable offering their friend advice.
    What would Swiy find more uncomfortable, discussing it or watching their friend get sick from an unhealthy lifestyle?

    Id imagine Swiy would prefer to have his friend stop if for no other reason than to feel more comfortable in the house.
     
  13. izzy31

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    The thing is, when SWIM and his friend USED to do speed, they would GO PLACES!!!! They would go to guitar center, play guitar together, go to the beach and actually get out of the house and be MORE active. But for the last year or so all this motherfucker wants to do is jerk off. And if he's not jerking off he's tweaking over some STUPID shit. Like cleaning the dishes with his hands because he doesnt TRUST the dishwasher. Or reading the same shit OVER and OVER and OVER.....WTF is this shit??
     
  14. johndoe04

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    SWIM used to see this type of behavior when he worked at a boys' home. He was group staff and the therapists would explain these behaviors to SWIM and his coworkers. Obviously it's natural for boys, especially in a group home, to masterbate. What the therapists were telling us, though, was how some of them get to the point where they're doing it so much that they're causing themselves physical pain and damaging their organ. It's this type of behavior that is a problem.

    For the boys that did this, it usually had to do with them having been sexually abused. Mentally they just couldn't stop the masterbating, even though there was pain when they would do it.

    As for SWIY's friend, SWIM thinks maybe the days of drugs have messed him up pretty bad? There definitely is a psychological disorder that goes along with jerking off as much as he is. Especially if he's doing it while sober.

    If you're super concerned, I'd ask your doctor about it. But if he's doing it as often as you say, he seriously could be messing himself up (rashes, sores, overdoing the organ, etc.).

    Good luck.

    -John
     
  15. 100mg Methylphenidate

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Hell. Swim does it till his dick is chaffed, possibly swollen, and may have a couple small sores for a few days. He's wayyyyyyy more open to sexual thoughts and is permanently horny once he starts thinking about sex. Which usually involves him having to decide to watch porn. If he doesn't start, he doesn't have to worry about when he'll stop.
     
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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    swiv jerks off for hours on amphetamine too... Its normal for a lot of users. Not coke, not crack, not morphine but amphetamine is amazing to jack off on for swiv. Sometimes its the only reason he does it, just to masturbate with.


    Cocaine (smoked or snorted) Provides swim with a similar feeling but he really doesn't like to masturbate on coke. So for swiv, if he wants to chill on crack, or powder cocaine, he listens to music and does all his normal stimulant shit (which doesn't include masturbating) and just faces the come down, on speed he masturbates instead of doing the normal stuff.

    Just lay off and remember hes on drugs, he will prob be doing some weird shit compared to sober people... after all, he is doing speed.
     
  17. th3tawav3

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Definitely need to assess the situation here. Swiy needs to realize that ur making it awkward by judging it in such a way, its a lack of understanding and tolerance on swiys part. You don't realize the psychology of addiction and addictive tendency. Its a total escape and release to wack it on crystal, its addictive, and its stress free no people around to get into your mind and thoughts.

    Seems to me like swiys friend has underlying issues in his life from past events or current situation that has lead him to choose to be away from people and in his room doing what he chooses. Regardless if it is wacking it or play World of Warcraft or whatever. Same shit. Only difference is with meth, there is the negative side effects of not sleeping/eating then wanting to do more and more to keep jacking off.

    Also, it seems to swim that SWIY has some doubtful thoughts about swiys self and swiys own use, maybe the thought of swiy doing the same thing as your roomate makes you see yourself as a loser and that scares swiy.

    In SWIMS honest opinion, swim believes there probably are good intention in the post trying to help swiys friend, but swiy just needs to recognize the reality of the situation.
     
  18. morrison

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    If this guy never eats, drinks or leaves the room how is it he's not dead of starvation or dehydration? More so how does her afford to keep getting meth?
     
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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    Dopaminergic drugs tend to put people into a state of obsessive-compulsive state. For SWIM it was writing, he just couldn't stop and would write 40 pages in a night. Although he wanted to stop just to grap a beer or a cigarette, he would have to put tremendous efforts in order to pull himself out of his obsession and finally grab one after 1H30 of one part of him fighting to let go of his writing and another one forcing him to write.

    To illustrate, Stevenson apparently wrote "Dr Jeckyl and Mr Hyde" on a 6-days non-stop cocaine binge... interesting as the story describes exactly these two personnalities fighting each other in one body.

    As far as the object of the compulsion is concerned, SWIM doesn't really know why it would be jerking off or writing or whatever... maybe the way to escape some personnal issues, specific to each persons.

    Another theory would be that one would become obsessed with the activity he first linked to taking the drug, associating it with the intense pleasure of the drug (In SWIM's case it would be coherent, but as far as sex is concerned, he doesn't really know... Sex would release dopamine for sure, and associating it with a strong dopaminergic would reenforce it 10 times SWIM guess)

    Maybe a solution for SWIY's friend would be to link other activities with the drug... So first step, to speak freely about it (SWIM doesn't really understand why the subject would be so hard to be talked about, as obviously his friend doesn't hide his compulsive activity), and then to try to force him to do something else rewarding while on the drug... just a thought.

    Anyway he won't be able to maintain this rythm for a long time, his dick will be shredded before long. That's what happens to patients with frontal cortex lesions sometimes, they mastubate frenetically and have to be restrained because of the damages they're doing to their penis!
     
  20. nothingman

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    Re: SWIM's friend jerks off for HOURS on meth

    SWIM has a similar problem. SWIM broke up with a girlfriend who he first started using with, and back when he was with this girl all they would do is have sex mostly while high, or at least a decent percentage. Now SWIM is no longer with the girl and finds himself compulsively jerking off if he takes the drug while alone. Sounds like a good time, sure, but it's starting to become a problem with SWIM because if he lets himself that's all he'll do is jerk off and in general isolates himself. The drug makes SWIM uncontrollably horny, which he actually finds is a BAD effect. He used to be active and do a variety of things while tweaking, but now it's like a jerk-fest. Ah... the obsessive tweaker life.