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Sexual - Meth´s SEX drive? truth or myth + questions

Discussion in 'Methamphetamine' started by Shroomec, Oct 7, 2011.

  1. Shroomec

    Shroomec Newbie

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    Hello Tweakers,

    My friend once told me:

    ´´I´m 20 years old, I´ve been using meth for 5 months now, I experienced best and some not that good moments, but overall, I think it had helped to awake my inner self.. I began to go to University, so I said I´ll stop, or even quit. As a last thing I did while on meth, is trhat i got a girlfriend I really love and she loves me too.. After a 2 weeks together (first week still on it, second one not) we finally got to a bed.. I had some MDMA at home, so i we did.. It all felt freakin awesome, apart from my erection.. Kinda limb.. But still, I did it, but it took like 10 seconds beiing inside, then i popped.. I have very few experiences and to that that point no actuall breaktrough :D ..so I said, ok no problem, nervous and drugs together.. Few days after, we went for another, but Iprepared myslef with a 0,5g of Ice.. Shame, that i was testing it the day before, so I slept for two hours.. So.. we did it, i felt nice, not overtweaked, but i felt light rushing and enhanced thinking a sensuality.. But my dick? ..In the begginig it was just Limb, but after.. mm, nothiing.. But still, in my brain I felt aroused as fuck.. It was really difficult to achieve erection and when I did, it lasted for a few secs, except for best oral sex :D ..I was really pissed, we talked about it and she was ok with, blaming the meth.. I was blaming meth too.. But, strangly, I remeber the faping sessions I did while tweaked in the begginig.. I felt harder than hard these days.. That day, and day after methsex, i tried to watch porn and guess what? absolutely freaking nothing.. not even limb.. i dont get.. Day after, which is today, we did it again, without meth thou.. I got hard in the begg. but than I start thinking about it and about getting hard and penetrating and dick goes down again.. I finally got it, but for a few secs, then i cum..

    I feel kinda weird about it, I´m kinda scared if meth hasn´t done something to my erection, or maybe it´s just psychological´, due the lack of experience.. Or both? :D ..i dunno..

    And I´m wondering.. what if I snorted like 0,2 in one line.. Do u think it would work better or worse?

    And.. Do u think that a type of meth has a connection witrh erection.. My stuff should be very good, but still, I´ve aůready seen 3 types of meth from one guy..

    And.. mm, tell me what should I do? :D

    I smoke cigs (like 10 a day), drink booze everyday, but in small amounts, I´m kinda lazy and don´t eat to much.. .. ´´

    help HIM please :D

    Shroomec added 8 Minutes and 40 Seconds later...

    and that guy smokes a lot of weed too..

    Shroomec added 2 Minutes and 24 Seconds later...

    and funny thing, that HE TOLD ME.. ´´when she said, when I was kinda hard, if I can go inside her, I began to think about it and got limb shortly after..´´
     
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  2. Ghetto_Chem

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    Well swims friend has never done straight crystal meth before. But used to drink every day as well, and during those times found it very hard to maintain an erection. It kinda fucked with him psychologically for awhile as he thought it was actually him, but after pretty much quitting drinking (everyday to once a month or less) he was back to his old self again. Swims friend has found that weed can effect things too although it more effects the motivation than the ability to preform.

    This could also be happening cuz shes a newer girlfriend and the nerves are getting to you, in combination with the drugs. Try to cut back on the bud and drinking, and see how sex is almost sober. Probably go alot better.

    One more thing, swims friend finds that if he cuts back on working out his sex drive diminishes slightly. The more you work out, most likely the more testosterone and other hormones are being created.

    If the meth had anything to do with it, its most likely psychological and will clear up soon.

    Peace
     
  3. breakpoint

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    When I have done meth it works great for doing what needs to be done in the bedroom, and for hours at that. There isn't crystal around here anymore really, just mostly shake and fake, but there's a guy that makes some shake and fake that will stand with any red dope around here.
     
  4. alienesseINspace

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    I cannot control my libido on adderall aka d-amphetamine. I'm going to have to try to be less hedonistic. If what I imagined doing was what I acted upon, I'd have myself a harem of gorgeous women for my boyfriend and I to share.

    Most of my female friends are absolutely delicious and they torture me by flashing me and making sure I'm always thinking something scandalous. Why do stimulants make me so slutty for women?!
     
  5. FearlessLink

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    One reason that I don't do meth. It always messed with my sex. My junk would feel constricted, like half it's normal size. And when I wanted to have sex, no matter how amped I was within myself, my body would never co-operate. Once I stopped the meth for a little while, I had no problem. Back to the sex machine that we all like to be.

    Just food for thought, if you don't like meth and that it's doing this to you.. think about quitting like I did! You'll be the stud you used to be. Sorry for the choice of words, i'm really stoned and it was fun to type.
     
  6. alienesseINspace

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    My girl junk seems to really be fueled by stimulants. I wonder why dudes have penile issues... not to be crude but a little mouth action can help with that.
     
  7. assholery

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    My friend has only tried it a few times, but everytime she was alone she couldn't stop using the vibrator, for like hours.....had to get rid of it to give her area some healing time.
     
  8. FearlessLink

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    Oh, believe me, all things (pretty much) had been tried to help. While some of that sort of thing helped in the short term, like for a few minutes, it just wasn't happening. The drug had effectively "Shut me down" Me and my buddy down there ;-;
     
  9. alienesseINspace

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    I do sort of understand. My SSRI makes my naughty bits less responsive. That's why I thank the heavens for lesbian porn to revive my "spirit" lol.
     
  10. FearlessLink

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    It was really, really frustrating. Because like I said... when meeting a girl i'd be chatty, witty, fun. Spun, as it was. Then when we got to the bedroom I couldn't do all the dirty things I wanted to do, at all. And it was torture. These couple experiences made me give it up altogether. Drugs are great, but if it's gonna stop me from having sex... Ohhh helllll no. I'd rather be sober. Or at the least under the effects of a more sex friendly drug. Such as opiates. Heheh.
     
  11. alienesseINspace

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    @Fearless, I understand what you mean. If my recreational drugs stopped me from doing my thing, I'd kick them out of my life so fast. And you're missing one thing... there are a lot of things you can do sexually without your lower fella. And that's why there's such a thing as a "spank bank." Recall that sh*t later when you're not as high and have your naughty way with yourself.
     
  12. FearlessLink

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    Lol. I may have been unable to get my "lower fella" erect at one time, due to meth use, but that doesn't mean I don't know about sex and it's many obvious joys to be had! :) Many, many things can happen without your actual penis. Making out, oral sex, the fun of foreplay..

    As far as Spank bank, I will admit, I've never heard that term.

    Sorry, everyone, if I went a little bit off topic. *drunk*
     
  13. highastinkerbell

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    Don't be scared. Give it a few days without drugs, and youll be hard again. I just tell my girlfriend what drugs I'm doing, so she knows what to expect. Meth and sex is interesting. Sometimes I get rock hard and we fuck for hours, and sometimes I just don't get hard at all. Funny thing happened the other day while tweaking that's never happened before. I just barely got the head of my dick in (no other part yet) and had the most violent orgasm of my life. But basically, if you want to be consistant in bed, don't do very many drugs. However, if you still want to do them, talk to your girl and just keep her informed so she knows what to expect and make sure she's ok with it.

    Whenever I can't get hard, I just put my energy into pleasing her (fingering and oral). That way it's not frustrating to her, because she can still be pleased.
     
  14. Saccharine

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    Meth has never made me want to have sex. Quite the opposite, it makes me want that area left alone. But I will become very sentimental, cuddly, and otherwise affectionate. It's weird, because I am very active while sober.
     
  15. JustSomeGirl

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    I've been with two guys who were on meth at the time. One consistently cannot orgasm while high, very frustrating for him and disappointing for me. The other had trouble maintaining an erection, but managed well enough for both of us to have a good time.

    I think most erectile problems in younger men are psychological. If the little guy fails you once, you tend to focus on it the next time, and it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy. I would suggest doing something to boost your confidence, but avoid setting yourself up for failure. Find a girl who enjoys giving oral sex, or maybe even invest in a flesh light?
     
  16. Nicnac

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    Meth actually causes vasoconstriction. There's a very real reason behind all the guys struggling to get an erection while on methamphetamine. I can only assume the ones who are able to function normally are
    1) one of the lucky few who didn't get that unfortunate side effect
    2) used a smaller quantity or uses less often ect..

    Nicnac added 7 Minutes and 35 Seconds later...

    I've experienced this problem 1st hand with my boyfriend on numerous occasions. We've kinda figured out our own sorta solution to it.

    When he gets frisky we do our thing. Foreplay, get him erect enough to put inside me, after a short time he loses it, rinse & repeat. Just a schmorgishborg of different sex acts. This usually ends with me getting extreme pleasure numerous times. But then we're stuck with the issue of him. After a while of messing around it eventually turns more to mutual masturbation. He likes to watch me while he pleases himself. It's still not the easiest but eventually he gets so turned on by watching me & then feels so much pleasure from himself, because let's face it no woman can give a better handjob than the man can give himself. He has been able to ejaculate every time.

    Warning: this does take a lot of time, effort & persistence. I don't advise pushing through pain or discomfort just wanting to ejaculate. If its hurts, STOP! Use lube. Don't rub your shit raw lol so not worth it.
     
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  17. arkoz1711

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    Back in the days having similar issues used 0.25-0.5 xanax 10minsbefore slam-use was like a miracle .