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Sexual - What is sex like on Heroin?

Discussion in 'Heroin' started by Retrodat, Apr 15, 2010.

  1. Retrodat

    Retrodat Mercury Member

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    Swim is new to H, well hasn't really tried yet, but soon will. Swim wants to know what is sex like on Heroin, what to expect?
     
  2. kasbeq

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    Swim has to give swiy a short reply as no time in his hands at the moment.

    If enhancing sexual experience is what you’re after ,than swiy should definitely be looking for something else .
    H is not a sexual stimulant –In fact it’s completely opposite
    or so my aardvark seems to think.

    Even if swiy finds sex enjoyable in the beginning under the influence of H – H will bite back and swiy will loose interest in sex altogether , amongst many other nasty things that come with heroin use


    Cannabis should be a better enhancer in sex than heroin
     
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  3. div4our

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    It feels better than regular (sober) sex but swim doesnt really like fucking on it.
    It takes FOREVER to bust or half the time you wont even bust.

    Swim made one of his regular fwb's feel bad one time because she couldnt make swim bust, and somehow she thought it was her fault?

    Anyways, it feels great; just you miss out on the best part.
     
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  4. snapper

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    Initially it did enhance sex, orgasm was near impossible but good if SWIM was able to make it there and getting there was enhanced, not so much in a sensory/tactile way as an emtional way (if that makes sense). However, heroin quickly abolished SWIM's interest in sex once SWIM was strung out. It was too much of a hassle - for SWIM a good rush and nod was far better. Once SWIM stopped, sex drive returned with a vengeance as soon as the withdrawals and depression started to subside. SWIM agrees with SWIdiv4our - there are better things out there unless SWIM can control the habit and suffers from premature ejaculation. SWIM is male and has heard that females might have a different take on its effects. A few SWIM knew swore it was a great aphrodesiac for them.
     
  5. tourniquet

    tourniquet R.I.P. Silver Member

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    I will try to skip the obvious advice of not starting to do heroin whatsoever OR switching/keeping to another ROA than IV use (which you should, btw :) ) and answer the OP's question based on SWIM's experience both personal and observing others.

    Heroin is certainly not Viagra. It's one of those few hardcore drugs regarded by the whole planet as high risk drugs. It's definitely not worth it to be risking your whole life as you know it now for some few (assumingly) crazy sex parties.
    "Only try it once" CAN & WILL hurt. While physical addiction takes quite some determination on regular usage of dope, you'll never forget that "heavenly feeling" of the rush & high, for the rest of your life.
    And from that point you're caught already, coz you'll either turn into an addict OR struggle to keep away from it, while fighting this huge urge to "go back there just one more time".

    Not worth it, really. There's a shitload of sexual enhancers out there, out of which many are more-or-less medically approved meds / local application solutions.
    Hell, there's even other drugs for a great outstanding fuck.
    Heroin's just not fit for this.


    Like Kasbeq stated above, if you're looking for sexual enhancements, Heroin is not the way to go, varying from person to person, though. Also depending on what's more important to you as sexual ability.

    I will try present SWIM's observations & knowledge in an organized way. Hope I succeed at doing so, too :laugh:


    The Sexual Pro's Of Heroin

    + Lower "local" sensitivity => Prolonged sexual act due to the opiate's general overall mild numbing effect that might get premature ejaculation completely out of the way if you're having this problem. However, note that this is causing a nasty counter-side effect, that I will mention in the "Con's List". Basically, you've just earned an ability to play Casanova for hours instead of the minutes you could barely fuck humanly before.

    + Increased pleasurefull sensations despite that mild numbing. Your body already feels great on Heroin's warm & fuzzy effect - having sex will add up to that pleasure (or viceversa - heroin adds to natural pleasure of sex lol).
    All touching will feel 10x times better than normal.
    An hours lasting plateau excitation phase can be quite pleasureful - to a point.


    + More or less intense lack of inhibitions caused by Heroin (and drugs in general) getting you that chill attitude on the issues you'd normally be stressed about. Both moral and physical, you'll probably get some long time fantasies running now - hopefully your partner will appreciate it and not run off naked in panic upon seeing the "pervert" you are. How you manifest is definitely controllable, however you do get impulses you usually don't get when sober.


    + Emotional openness that's always a good thing when having sex and adds up a lot to the whole experience, as long as you're not just having "a fuck" and you're really involved with that person - or you two are just matching your desires & passion for a pure-sex intense act




    The Con's List gets....


    - Mild to extreme toughness / impossibility to have an orgasm - hence, physical natural ability to get an ending of the whole pleasurefull thing, that might turn to a very frustrating one after hours of using every possible stimulation, both mental and physical, on that stubborn "organ" that's refusing to get any higher than the plateau phase and reach the heights of orgasm. Applies both to male & female

    - High sex drive, low body feedback as you might be crazed set on having sex mentally, but your body might be just too relaxed for giving you what you "need" (aka limp dick junkie syndrome). Rare, but happens.

    - Lower risks awareness resulting in ignoring safe sex precautions. Pretty important one, as by not putting that condom on you might just get some nasty STD - or HIV. Or you can get her pregnant & add up child support to your list of expenses for quite a while. This applies when having sex with strangers and not with your long-term partner....although you do run the risks with your partner too, depending on your relationship levels & circumstances.

    - Being a boring stiff rag doll as you might be feeling SO good you'd get nodding off and that's surely not an exciting sex partner to have...

    - Complete lack of sexual interest that grows proportionally to your addiction time lenght and intensity. As posters above mentioned, you'd eventually get to really prefer a good nodding off over "all that effort for nothing" . For an addict, yeah, the rush & high do get to become better than any orgasm - that you probably don't get anyway when being an addict.
    Same, being an addict and having the physical effort making sex involves will speed up the WD process coming. Yet another reason to avoid sex, not only be barely interested in it. (to SWIM is...)



    Will add more if SWIM gives me any updates.



    * The plateau phase is the period of sexual excitement prior to orgasm.
     
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  6. Spucky

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    AW: What is sex like on Heroin?

    Sex on Heroin is like ordering a Cappuccino and getting Codliver Oil!
     
  7. tourniquet

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    Uhm...about the "different" effect on sexuality as females...

    SWIM is definitely female, and her list above is mirroring her own "issues" just as much as they apply to male junkies she "observed" (read: had sex with).
    Of course, not getting limp dicked as the female she is :p but really, no big differences...once she got addicted.
    Before?
    Oh yeah, as an occasional user it was a huge aphrodisiac, too much of an aphrodisiac actually, SWIM is not always too happy remembering the fuck-ups she had sex with in those occasional use days .... :laugh:
     
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    Like the saying swim can 'Keep it up like Errol Flynn' although beating it into submission can be tiring.

    When addicted swim notices WD arriving sooner after orgasm.

    Continuous long term H use (addiction) can alter the functioning of the pineal gland and lead to OPIATE INDUCED TESTOSTERONE DEFICIENCY summat to do with the hypothalamic-pituitary-gonadal axis.

    Basically once addicted it reduces ur sex drive to minimal most of the time and to near none immediately after using. Occurs for women too who can also stop having peroids when addicted to H

    H can be a great enhancment on many levels from pro-longed sex act to more open intense feelings discussions with partners, but swim would probably say E is the drug of choice for gettin loved up on H is more useful for escaping/dealing with reality!
     
  9. Pieces Mended

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    Without having done H himself, SWIM feels these mirror exactly the pro's and con's of sex on most drugs. They certainly could be applied directly to both coke and high levels of hydrocodone or oxycodone, all of which SWIM has had sex on. The one thing you mentioned SWIM will certainly attest to is that your inhibitions to mention sexual fantasies will be totally lost, so hopefully your partner and you have similar ideas that have yet to be expressed, or at the very least they are open minded to new things. SWIM has had partners both very turned off by the things that come to mind while on opiates and sexual, as well as partners who were on the exact same train of thought. He can also say even with partners he'd been with for long periods of time, the "lower risk awareness" has led to some awkward situations. :laugh:
     
  10. tourniquet

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    Lol @ that :laugh:


    SWIM also had both weird & awesome fantasy - connecting while having those nymphomaniac beginings :laugh:

    What's pretty strange to me is that the best sexxing ever has occurred with the most fucked-up junkies of them all.
    Like, she totally wasn't expecting to have a great sexual bond with that begging "gimme-2-units-or-your-filter-pleaaaaase" type...or the complete ignorant "arteries are smaller veins" type... Stupidity is usually (always, unless really shit doped) the biggest sexual turn-off for her.
    Yet, it happened.
    :laugh:
     
  11. Pieces Mended

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    Sounds like SWIY had some crazy experiences. SWIM's were usually on coke, a few times on Oxy or Hydro or another stimulant. It is funny how you can even surprise yourself with the things that come to mind as "hey this is a great idea!" in those conditions. SWIM remembers his ex sneaking her best friends furry (but locking) handcuffs out of her apartment and back into ours, fully knowing she'd have to call her friend to get the keys. That seemed like a great idea until both SWIM and his ex started to come down a bit and actually had to make the phone call. :eek:
     
  12. tourniquet

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    :laugh:

    Well, junkie to junkie and among junkies is not embarrassing at least...

    What SWIM hated was just how she'd get fucken "brilliant" ideas while being among sober people.
    Ex. : SWIM giving something very similar to a webcam show (so not really masturbating but not far either) to her sober confused embarrassed boyfriend on a grassy hill in a park.

    :laugh:

    And even when being among junkies, so "safe", she'd be very ingenious herself on how could she immortalize the moment (speaking about bad ideas that seem great when ur mind went nodding off and you hang around loose).

    So SHE was suggesting some guy would record the happening thing - varying from innocent stupidities like "hey, film me shooting, then film my pupils, see if they restrain visibly!" (they don't) to the extreeemely reputation-stupid "hey, let's film this 4some messing around" (which was not quite sex but something like "can I do this? - heheee I can" thing - no one was really aroused but still...).
    Even if the 4some of her & 3 male junkies wasn't quite sexual, it was on all these 3 junkies phones as vids, so I imagine it would have damaged SWIM's "good girl" reputation ...if she had one to start with :laugh:

    Things drugs get you doing .... :laugh:
     
  13. Pieces Mended

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    Well, tourniquet I think your SWIY stories are a bit crazier than mine. :laugh:

    Although SWIM's usually ended in a more embarrassing way, either because his gf needed to enlist the help of one of her friends to fix it, or because they'd get into things that they would be well sober before figuring how to get out of. :laugh:
     
  14. Retrodat

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    This is really well written and extremely informative, exactly what i was looking for. SWIM really appreciates it and thanks SWIY deeply:)

    Retrodat added 2 Minutes and 58 Seconds later...

    HOT TRIPS!!!!:)

    It funny because in Montreal those sexual trips are considered pretty normal amongst the sober crowd, imagine what the junkies are doing here hehe:crazy We are such a sexually open city I LOVE IT:)
     
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  15. tourniquet

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    To RetroDat:

    I'm really glad I could organize SWIM's observations in a comprehensive list.
    Hell, I'm fucken proud about it :laugh:
    But please consider it's most probably pretty far from complete in presenting all the pro's and con's of Heroin usage, strictly from a sexual point of view!
    Not even mentioning the Pro's and Con's of Heroin itself is a much much longer list of vital importance issues to consider!

    Really happy I could help you out with your "doubts" ....and judging from your reply, I'd think you're mature enough to take both lists seriously, not only go all yiiipeee about the Pro's while skipping The Con's (that really are just as important, if not even more, btw)...
    :vibes:

    Hope your SWIM will consider these all in his decisions, and always choose what's best for him - personally.

    Feel free to ask any other questions on this topic of Heroin-affected sexuality .... or any other Heroin topic!
    Off-Topically speaking...I could provide a bit of insight on MDPV & DXM too....but nowhere would SWIM be *that* informed with those (or any other drugs, for that matter) as she is with Heroin (4 years addiction and counting - she's one of the young addicts though).

    I will do my best to express the true ups & downs I got to be aware of, from SWIM's experiences.
    I think that only telling the bad part, on any given drug, is only gonna get you ignored and regarded as a "scarecrow". So I prefer telling the truth, as complete as I can & with whatever humble knowledge SWIM has got over the facts.

    May her lab-rat self-attitude help you, at least skip some common mistakes one could really do without...IF SWIY would really be *that* decided to play Russian Roulette with this sneaky, perverted Heroin.
    PM me anytime !


    Be informed, be responsible, be safe!
    Knowledge IS power, use it wisely !

    :vibes:
     
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  16. 420Shark210SanAnto

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    SWIM apologizes for the short post but he's in a rush and just wanted to share his two cents and his experience:

    SWIM has had many sexual experiences on heroin (SWIM is a heterosexual male, and only does heroin via snorting it btw) and has only ever had problems a few times. He has heard from many other people that it causes them to be unable to ejaculate, or even get a hard on for some. Some people claim that its like this every time for them. SWIM has had this problem maybe three or four times, and only when he is VERY loaded on H, but it has allowed him to last much longer and feel less fatigued after a half hour rump. He is usually able to get his rocks off though. And he has never been unable to get an erection however.
     
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    Swim finds its super hard if not impossible to orgasm so he could thrust into his girlfriend as hard/fast as possible without worry of giving it up. That part is awesome! The part where sometimes you have to just give up and stop without having an orgasm is not!
     
  18. onzero

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    opiates and sex do not go together. swim doesn't even care about sex on any opioid.
     
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    Hmmm.......SWIM can only have sex when he's high, but hes physically addicted, so when not high= sick= not sexy.

    Anyway, the above pro/con list pretty much covers it... It's very aphrodesiacal (new word!) for non addicts and newbies, once it takes over your life, not so much.
     
  20. Retrodat

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    SWIY may have saved SWIM's life with that critical information, so SWIM is very grateful for that. SWIM will have alot of H question in the near future and looks forward to learning more!:)